Look at
everyone that surrounds you closely.
What do
you see?
I see pain, misery, broken-hearted, lost soul, solitary and darkness. These are some of the most painful perplexity of life. Going through it with these egos can only bring one thing - depression. Yes D-E-P-R-E-S-S-I-O-N ! The causes of depression will lead one to aloofness and because of that, one will miss out the "good" things in life. As we all know, there are good and bad things in life - the bright and dark side of one's soul.
There
are different types of people in the world, each carrying distinct characters
of their own but there are only two types of people in this world. One is the
one that live life on the bright side and the other one living in the dark. I
am in between of these two, but occasionally I tend to lean towards the dark
side of life. I can't really tell why but I think it is all due to the work of
the mind. Our mind is link to the brain and connects to our nerves/senses and
because of that it automatically stores images/texts/speeches from what we
see/hear. Largely due to the work of our nerves/senses, we become emotional and
because we are emotional, we take things too seriously and find it difficult to
let go of certain things. Whereas, people on the brighter side are less
emotional and find it easier to let things go: let bygones be bygones.
I
often wonder how I can prevent myself from getting too emotional and be a
"lighter" person with less worries. A few options came up: [1] Come
out more often and meet new people for inspirations, [2] Organise gatherings or
attend parties, [3] Attend yoga/pilates classes to free your mind, [4] Join
aerobic classes to lose weight (trust me, you
will feel lighter and fresher after a while), [5] Hang out with
people who take life less, [6] Go for vacations (if
your wallet allows), [7] Be playful, [8] Talk about less serious
stuff, like joke about how the whole crowd reacted when your skirts/pants fell
off when you stood up and cheered for your school's victory from the
spectator's seat! [9] Learn and I mean really learn and take the time to learn
to let bygones be bygones and finally [10] Get your gears working and Try to be
a "lighter" person by living on the bright side.
It's
a long list but it makes sense, doesn't it? I haven't tried any of it...just
yet! But I will and I'm positive with the outcome about being a lighter person
living on the brighter side of life. Although it's going to take some time to
accomplish all of that but I will take it slow and steady for the sake of
making my life easier.
Life is and should be beautiful. Get out of the roof and take beautiful pictures of life. Explore the beauty of nature and experiment with angles and lighting, same goes for life - explore life's beauty and experiment with different attitude and exposure. Like I've said earlier on, I tend to lean towards the darker side of life, and from time to time I find it tiring, worthless and pathetic. I mean life shouldn't really be lived that way. I certainly don’t want my life to end in such a pathetic way. Really, it's pathetic! It's making me unfit for my opponent - My future. Which means everything I do now will lead to the consequences of my future and to avoid ending my life pathetically, anything that my bare hands can lay on should be of good worth and meaningful.
Above all else, I want to remember my life in terms of friendship and fun, of laughter and love, of good times and good people. I want to be able to walk out of my misery and come back fresh.
